A Chance In The World

I rarely have the luxury of being able to sit and watch a movie, but in my solitude today, I relaxed into watching one called ‘A chance in the world.’  I know….I am so behind….nonetheless, It took me through a series of emotions, mostly sadness, anger and  helplessness.

As I viewed the abusive life of Steve at the hands of foster parents, I was pained to observe how nonchalance, processes and cold uncaring people can cause children to suffer in silence.  As I cried, I just wondered how many Steves there are out there, and I prayed over them!

I become introspective, wondering how aware I was being, and whether any signals had passed me - thankfully I can say I caught a few, as my sense of discernment have allowed me to pick up on what others have missed, time and time again!

I strongly believe children are little people, who though not as experienced, are oft times more aware and truthful than us adults.  We generally do not give them the respect, the credit or the listening ear they are due, and as such we do not attune ourselves to their needs and requests in part or in whole!

Our children need us...let us strive to be HIP for their sakes, be humble, intentional and prepared. It is incumbent on us as adults to feel/be responsible for the welfare of ALL children - it still takes a village, believe!

Sometimes we need to go get a coke allow the space for breakthrough and exploration without violating protocol.  The life we save today (literally or figuratively), may well be our own!

#takeachance

#beHIP

#childrenmatter

#ittakesavillage

#achanceintheworldfoundation

Steve Pemberton as played in the movie

Steve Pemberton as played in the movie

Humbly Giving Thanks!

As we approach this here 2020 Thanksgiving season, I am curious to see how we will celebrate in these unprecedented times.

We can all agree that so far, the year has been one of change, anxiety, fear, aloneness, illness, death, grief, fatigue, mental and physical instability, monetary challenges and for many, ‘extended parenting.’  All in all, it has been a challenging period, and unless you have had a new born baby or won a million dollars, you probably have not been as elated as you otherwise usually are.

In contrast, prayerfully and reflectively I have been able to assess the things around me, personally, socially, professionally, and environmentally for which I am able to continually give thanks.  Humbly, I have been able to zoom into the things that once were taken for granted, and now give thanks for them.  Finances, health and job aside, I am able to give thanks for:

LIFE – Though I tested negative post illness, I know in my heart, based on symptoms experienced, that I was affected by the virus of the pandemic, but….I am here and alive and so I give thank!!!

ENCOURAGEMENT – Over the past months I have been able to reach out to those around me – shut-ins, homeless, friends, family and associates, and speak into their spirts.  I was able to bless and or support them prayerfully, verbally or financially – and for this ability I do give thanks.

RELATIONSHIPS – I am able to give thanks for the personal time provided by the many changes I am experiencing.  In different ways I have been able to embrace, solidify, and harness some key relationships.  It has been a blessing to be able to exercise my interpersonal skills in strengthening the relationships that are important to me.

SELF ASSESSMENT – My alone time, my daily devotions, my nature walks, my new found love for novels (thanks to one of my dear friends who saw it fit to start a virtual book club during these ‘shut-in’ times, and thought to include me), have all contributed to what I believe is a better me.  I give thanks that I have been able to humbly, intentionally and preparedly, stay spiritually, physically, nutritionally and relationally fit!  I have even opened myself to receive and embrace a special ‘love interest’ 😊.

So, regardless of your loss, challenge, set back or health, let us take the time to humbly look within and find the things we wish to give thanks for in this thanksgiving season.  

Colossians 3:17 (NIV)  “And whatever you do, whether in words or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.                           – Dr Sue

#thankful

#thanksgiving

#Humble

#BeHIP

#gratitude

Humbly Giving Thanks

Humbly Giving Thanks

And just like that...I became an author!

Funny how today I encourage people to be intentional in planning next steps when most of the major developments in my life seemed to have evolved and were not intentionally pursued.

From an early age, I enjoyed writing, composing and or analyzing stories.   As a teenager and young adult writing was my therapy and savior.  I wrote when I was happy, I wrote more when I was sad and I wrote alot to de-stress!  I wrote poems, short stories, letters and Journal entries!  I wrote at anytime of night or day and I wrote anywhere!

Some writings had to be trashed, some were shared, but most were left unedited, raw and strewn around!

Fast forward, some thirty-five, forty years later, I’m getting ready to celebrate my fiftieth birthday.  Well if you know me...you’d know that the most important day of any year is my birthday, and must be celebrated, acknowledged and/or be a vacation day.

So here I am 2013, four months to my birthday and suddenly realizing that this was a major milestone, (after all, my own father only lived to be forty-five) I pondered what I’d do to mark this major achievement.  Well, as an entertainer I had been busy celebrating Jamaica’s year long 50th year independence celebrations, when a light bulb went on!!

The thought came to me...Why not compile fifty of my pieces from the writings of the  past thirty plus years, in celebration of Jamaica’s 50th year of independence and for my fiftieth birthday!  Wallah...so off I went, a race against the clock, to have my legacy piece ready on time.  And just like that, a table top edition poetry  book entitled “Ode to Miss Lou...From the Soul of Dr Sue” was borne.  It is a three part book designed as an educational resource to familiarize the reader to the  Jamaican vernacular, introduce topics to generate discussion, as well as heart and soul introspective pieces.

The production of the poetry book led to an increase in my event performances.  It was also a major resource for my scheduled radio program ‘Culture Corner with Dr Sue’.  This radio program, geared at a predominantly Jamaican audience, gave rise to more writings, as I would spontaneously create pieces during the program to reflect a specific occasion or event at the request of listeners.  Some months later, as I gathered all the scraps of paper on which I had written, preparing to discard of them, the light bulb went on again!

Why don’t I compile these pieces and create another book!? And so done, my second book of poems ‘I am Jamaica’ was borne.  This book speaks to Jamaica’s culture and customs and is ideal for those wanting to go down memory lane.

Well...two down, one to go...

I had actually started writing my Memoir, when my mother passed away suddenly!   As I have done over the years, I managed my grief by writing.  I put my memoir on hold and decided to chronicle the life of my mother, through the stories shared by others at her Memorials. This all gave birth to my third book ‘Living a HIP Life...Humble, Intentional and Prepared.

This narrative captures a life journey filled with wisdom, faith and will.  It will help us and our loved ones celebrate and appreciate the newness that can be brought about physically, spiritually and relationally when we strive to live a Humble, Intentional and Prepared Life!

And with that I say...keep writing, keep storing, keep sharing!  You may not aspire to be an author, but sometimes our lives are simply divinely purposed and in the moment of maturation you’ll be prepared!

The books are available at: 

Apple iTune Store, Amazon, Barnes and Noble and DrSueAndU.com

#authorlife

#BeHIP

#Poetry

#writing

#writers

#wisdom

#faith

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Slow and Close - 2020 Presidential Election

Races aren’t always won by those who are swift and crafty.  They are sometimes won by those who are slow, decent, patient,and can endure.

As I watched the counting of votes for an election that under different circumstances could have been decided days ago, I reflected on the facts unveiled and the lessons learned.  My belief that we live in a space and place where actions, behaviors, and thoughts of the leader was representative of a large majority of its people... was firmly, clearly and concretely confirmed.  A leader is only as strong as their support, so never fear the leader, concern yourself with those around them.

So now, do you see and understand why a leader representing and depending on church and people, could not openly denounce or address:

• Gun control

• Black Lives Matter Movement

• George Floyd’s public lynching

• Breonna Taylor’s murder

• White Supremacy

People, it is what it is, take the blinkers off, be cognizant, be humble, be intentional, be prepared, but above all – continue to pray and remain hopeful!  The lessons, events and experiences of the past four years were necessary to wake a people up.

• Some finally understood the value of their vote

• Some saw just how much church (evangelicals) are steeped in politics, over moral decency.

• Some realized that we do live in a society that values wealth over health.

• Some learned it is possible that even leaders when desperate, can resort to intimidation tactics, voter suppression and sadly, sabotage of the necessary postal service.

My God made this process slow and close so that, vote by vote, we can see openly and clearly the environment in which we live, love, work, worship and parent!  

We have been shown TRUTH, we need to stay WOKE!  

Be HIP – Humble, Intentional, Prepared.

IJS – Dr Sue 11-5-2020

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